Tanja Alexandra Kern

Have you ever experienced the creeping feeling that there is something missing in your life?
Are you still looking for your purpose and feel confused by how to possibly discover your unique gift?
Or do you have a calling and are holding back? Do you allow fear to prevent you from living a fulfilled life?

We all have dreams and when we ignore the voice of our heart, we may distract ourselves for a while, but ultimately will experience suffering. Oftentimes our calling lies outside our comfort zone and we have to ask ourselves, “Would you rather be comfortable or do you dare to take on the new opportunities?”.

When we choose comfort, later in life we may feel regret and beat ourselves up over the missed adventures, opportunities and possibilities. In addition we may blame and resent others for their previous lack of support, disapproval, adverse advice or judgement. This way we spread our unhappiness and misery from our heart to those around us which spirals us deeper into the negative spectrum emotionally, mentally and maybe even physically. This is, of course, the worst outcome scenario. It really depends on the intensity of your calling and your own judgement.
Please remember that it is no ones responsibility but yours, to walk steadily in the direction of your dreams.
It is up to you to start listening within. You are in charge of discovering your dreams and passions. Give yourself the permission to unlock your potentials. Are you listening to your heart? What does it whisper to you?

We are all here to fulfill our purposes and it is so important to support each other on our journeys.

And yes, you have unique and special talents and gifts to give to the world! Someone exactly like you has never been and will never be, so go ahead and cherish who you are and what you have to offer!

Are you not following your calling because of the fear of not being ready, not perfect, not being liked or approved of, of being a fake? Please know that you are not alone. We all go through those emotions and it is not easy to leave the familiar behind as you take the first steps towards your dream. If you feel restricted in some way, listen to your thoughts, become aware of your patterns and habits. Others may not approve of your changes and not everybody will like you or support you in what you do. And they don’t have to. Give yourself permission to take action. Surround yourself with those who believe in you. There are people out there looking for exactly what you have to offer.

Don’t let fear hold you back, but let love and excitement move you forward!

What can you do today to take your first step towards your calling?

And please remember to believe in yourself! Believe in your dreams!

I know that you are worth it! You are enough! You have what it takes!

I believe in your and cheer you on!

If you haven’t unlocked your potentials yet, don’t know what your purpose is or need help in any way along your journey, please know that I am here for you.

What inspires you? What are your dreams? Please send me your feedback, thoughts and comments!
Also if you are already living your dream and are following your heart, I’d love to hear from you!

Please also share this article with your friends to inspire and encourage them.

Sending you endless blessings from my heart to yours,


Tanja Alexandra Kern


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